The Biggest Lie in Home Buying: ‘If You’re Approved, You Can Afford It’
Mortgage approval and real-life affordability are completely different things. Here’s why so many buyers learn that too late.
5/7/2026 · 10 min read
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Mortgage approval and real-life affordability are completely different things. Here’s why so many buyers learn that too late.
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